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Blogmas In January? - days 17 through 24

Publié le 31 Janvier 2022 par Charly C.

Catégories : #blogmas, #blogmas 21, #adventures, #customs, #traditions

Hello all.

I thought I should finally end the Blogmas 2021 "saga," thing. Let's go!

Day 17

On this day we had the chance to win another premium account, by participating in the contest on Facebook.

Since I already won, I didn't participate again, even though I want and need one for my review site. But don't worry, there's still time in the future. And at the time i didn't have a good use for it. And others also want and need it, maybe more than me.

Day 18

On this day, we were supposed to complete our Christmas gifts. I'm going to half-ass the description for this day. I can't really remember what i already said about the gifts i prepared.

We did find this pig statue with a feather collar. We bought it for Anna's mom. She loved it!

Anna received mostly items decorated with a pink flamingo or red birds. But this piglet statue is fabulous and i can't say anything anymore. :)

Day 19

For this day, we were supposed to have a positive attitude the whole day.

What can i say? since i started taking my antidepressants, having a more positive attitude or mindset is far more easy than before.

However, i don't think on this particular day my attitude was too positive. It's silly and ridiculous to think people can have a certain state of mind on command. Actors might be able to pull it off, as this is their job.

Day 20

On this day, we were supposed to wear or showcase a Christmas sweater. The platform also offered a 50% sale for its premium account option.

We don't have Christmas sweaters, but we have many pairs of seasonal socks. Mostly received as Christmas gifts. You can see one of these pairs in this entry.

We still have and use it, along with any other we will still receive in the future.

Day 21

On this day, we were supposed to talk about cooking for the holidays. I feel this topic is redundant at this point. I feel as if we already talked about holiday foods twice already.

One of the stuff to be cooked on this day is the cozonac. We actually ordered ours this year. We also ordered one of the next beauties for Anna's parents.

Apparently, it was delicious! The place where we ordered it from usually sells ice cream and it's super popular in summer.

Day 22

On this day, we had another chance to win a premium account. No more comments here.

Day 23

On this day, we had to make the life of another better, by donating stuff we don't need anymore.

I'm actually a member of a local free-cycle group on Facebook. We donate there various items quite often. We also took many things others had no more use of. It saves us quite a bit of money, and people scratch one another's back rather often.

The variety or value of the items being donated is rather high at times.

Day 24

On the last day of Blogmas, we had to share good resolutions. And I'm not sure what this means.

This means i don't have much to say to begin with. And the result is that i finally finished last month's daily challenge set by my platform, Over-Blog.

I hope you had a good Christmas and New Year's Eve. :)

I think the next entry will be in the first 7 days of February. Until then, check out my site with reviews. At its current URL, the posts appear twice per week, on Mondays and Thursdays!

Until next time!

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Blogmas In January? - days 12 through 16

Publié le 13 Janvier 2022 par Charly C.

Catégories : #blogmas, #adventures, #bucharest, #customs, #life experience, #traditions, #blogmas 21

Hi all!

Let's continue with Blogmas in January. Well, if you were living in Russia, you'd be celebrating Christmas in January, actually. At least there's that, i suppose.

Once again I'll batch a few days together, mostly because i failed to post it in December, as I mentioned in the previous post.

Day 12

On the 12th day, we were expected to mention or make a list of our favorite Christmas movies.

Just like with seasonal music or the wreath, I'm not a fan of such movies.

I can't remember if we watched any movie in December. I did watch Star Trek The Next Generation. And yes, I'm more of a Trekkie, and definitely not a fan of Star Wars, sorry. :( Currently, I'm watching the Deep Space Nine series.

Day 13

On this day, we once again had the opportunity to earn a premium or business paid account for our blog or site.

This time I participated and ....

I actually won!!!! YAAAAAY!!!!! I'm really happy about it! :D

Nothing more to talk about for this day.

Day 14

Today's challenge was related to the food we planned for Christmas. If you remember from last year, i may have mentioned we usually have traditional foods we eat for certain celebrations. This link may refresh your memory.

One of the dishes you can expect to see Salad a la Russe. While the recipe is the same year after year, the design will always be different. This is the recipe I use, in case you haven't seen it yet.

I made probably 3 plates and a casseroles of salad. The casserole went to Anna's parents, as her mother was sick and couldn't stand or sit for too long. As such, we offered to make the salad for them.

Blogmas In January? - days 12 through 16

These are most of the plates i decorated for this Christmas. I'm surprised to see just how clear and crisp the image and colors are. Well, If I'm not mistaken, these were taken with my new iPhone 8, so maybe this is why.

For this salad, the carrots and almost everything should be cooked or pickled, including the carrots and pieces of red bell pepper. My carrots are boiled, and the peppers are raw. The salad is better with these 2 decor pieces as pickled.

As a side note, the last image is the salad for Anna's parents.

Day 15

I don't think I have much to report for this day. The admins of the platform said today's international tea day. or something along these lines.

They asked if we prefer tea or coffee. Well, i prefer coffee, though I drink quite a bit of tea as well. If you want to know more about tea in Romania, this link can help you out.

Day 16

On this day, we're supposed to go to the Christmas market. Last year we didn't have one. This year we did something organized, but it was disappointing.

For starters, there was an entry fee, we needed proof of being vaccinated, to wear the mask, and it was MUCH smaller. Furthermore, it didn't even really have the usual stands with traditional Christmas food.

And there was also no Kurtos Kalacz, or chimney cake, either.

Here are some of the pictures I took at the event:

Actually, it seems i lost the pictures from the actual market. These stalls are an "unofficial event" taking place in the heart of the city, in Union Square.

The picture with a few chimney cakes being cooked, is from a several-year-old event happening at yet a different location.

This year, we didn't buy anything from the Christmas market nor from these vendors.

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Blogmas In January? - days 7 through 11

Publié le 13 Janvier 2022 par Charly C.

Catégories : #blogmas, #adventures, #customs, #traditions, #blogmas 21

Hello all!

Today we continue with the blogmas for 2021. As you can see, I'm a month late with this. I was very busy back in December, and i couldn't finish it on time :(

I'll try to catch up now, in January, as I'm not inspired to write about anything else.

Without further ado, here they are!

Day 7

Giving a second life our entries. Hmm, this is something I'll need to think about and possibly write a separate entry.

I guess, revisiting the entries and re-editing them to sound closer to our current writing style, yes?

I probably should do this with some. This action is good when considering re-branding. Speaking of rebranding, this entry will tell you more about some other things to consider if you want to re-brand your blog, site, or whatever.

Day 8

For the 8th day, we had to create a wreath. If you remember from 2020's blogmas, on December 15, we had to do this. Except I'm not doing that sort of thing. We don't really care about Christmas in this house, except the gifts.

Instead, I arranged some magnets in a circle. Of course i repeated what i did the year before. This year I have different magnets I found at the dumpster (next to it). I got rid of the old ones, except for 2. The little doll with blond hair is not a magnet.

magnets Dutch clogs Colorful Ladies San Francisco green house blond doll

My favorite magnets are the pink Dutch clogs, the green building, the flamenco dancer, San Francisco Colorful Ladies, and the blue door from Morocco.

Day 9

For the 9th day, we had to enter a contest for a premium account.

I didn't win because I ddin't even enter. I checked the challenge too late. The next day, late.

There's nothing more to say about this event.

Day 10

For this day we were asked to write about "zero waste." I wrote something similar in July, called "why isn't all single-use plastic banned" or something among this line. You can read it here, if you haven't seen it yet.

I do want to say that i can't see "zero waste" being possible, at least not yet. The idea is actually to reduce the amount of waste we produce daily or weekly. Additionally, we should also reduce the amount of stuff we buy, and buy only if:

we really need it
we really like it

Buying less means less waste and more money in our wallets. This is great!

Day 11

For this day, we were asked for Christmas gift ideas. We could also share what we bought to give away as gifts.

Obviously, back then, I couldn't post what i bought. But now i can. Well, everything i bought was decorated with birds. The majority of the birds i got were flamingos.

The most spectacular gift was the paper gift bag itself. This is red, with some sparkles. Then, I also got a set of 2 plates. These are also red, decorated with some flowers and birds. I think these 2 were the

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Blogmas - days 3 through 6? ooops

Publié le 10 Décembre 2021 par Charly C.

Catégories : #blogmas, #customs, #religion, #people, #traditions, #blogmas 21

Hello all!

I promised I'd post more often, but one makes plans and God laughs.

So, on Saturday the 4rd i had to finish a project, and i focused all my efforts towards it.

Let's complete the challenges!

Day 3

The challenge was to create a playlist for Christmas.

If there's anything i dislike more around this time of the year, or in general, is Christmas music or songs. All of them.

Instead, i prefer calming music, the type that allows you to relax and make you feel cozy, warm, and that generally puts me in a better and calmer mood.

Lately, i listen most of the music the youtube channel "Cappuccino" puts out. I play the songs for autumn the most because .... see above.

I have no more words. to add here.

Day 4

For the 4t of December we had to decorate our Christmas trees. I'll just attach a picture of mine.

It is placed UNDER a table because the space is small and there was no room. In the other room there are cats and i don't trust them NOT to ruin the tree.

Since it's a small tree, i can't add too much on it. I also removed that santa or snowman thing. It was overbearing the tree and the other decorations.

Day 5

For the 5th day, the challenge was very easy: we were supposed to relax with our families.

This is just what i did, since i had just finished a complicated project and I was mentally tired and stressed.

Day 6

We were asked to redesign our blogs in the colors of Christmas.

Clearly, this is impossible for some people out there who try hard to keep a steady image.

Personally, i like my blog the way it is, i don't want to change it for any celebration. I'm not even sure how to do that. Should i write this part in several colors? LOL

Stay tuned for the rest of the entries tomorrow!

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Blogmas 2021 - Day 2

Publié le 2 Décembre 2021 par Charly C.

Catégories : #blogmas, #advice, #customs, #people, #traditions, #blogmas 21

Hello!

It's already December, and this means it's Blogmas time! if you don't already know, last year i participated in the blogmas challenge that my blogging platform set up. :D You can read last year's blogmas at this link!

If you're wondering why I wasn't present for the past few months, I'll clarify (a bit) after i complete the challenge for the day.

As you can see, this is day 2. For the first day, we had to enter a contest for a premium account. Which i did but did not win. It's OK, I hope there will be other occasions.

For the 2nd day, our "challenge" is to write a list of ideal gifts for this year's Christmas. This should be really easy, for anyone.

Including for me. Or is it? Well, here it goes, in no particular order, though some are more important than others:

A new phone
The laptop's back to be repaired
A bottle of Chanel no 5 perfume
To fix my first sewing machine
A pair of old/vintage tailors shears
A premium account for my blog and site {will be live again starting January ;)}
My geraniums to bloom more, the ones in water to grow roots
My kalanchoe to bloom again

If you're curious if last year i had a wishlist challenge, I did. You can read it here. And for the curious, I had 5 wishes, and 3 of them came true :) Spoiler alert, not the serger or the "enough money to buy a house," but it's better than nothing.

And if you were curious as of why I went MIA ... I was extremely busy. and depressed. I started therapy and treatment.

I'm getting better and i hope to be more active from now on.

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Blogmas - days 15, 16, and 17

Publié le 17 Décembre 2020 par Charly C.

Catégories : #blogmas, #adventures, #customs, #job

Hello everybody!

Today is the 17th day of Blogmas and you perhaps wonder why didn't I post daily as promised, especially lately.

The answer is pretty simple: not all the challenges were created to writing something. Or if I could have written something, it would have been too short.

Personally, I don't like very short entries - we have Twitter for that. I also don't read very long entries, and I'm pretty sure nobody really is either.

Let's have a look at the challenges for the missing days!

DAY 15

For blogmas day 15, we were supposed to make a Christmas wreath. You may wonder why, since for the 5th day of blogmas we had to decorate for the holidays. I mean, it does include putting out a wreath as well, right?

And you may also remember from the same entry that we don't really have any such decors.

Well, at the time you may be reading this entry, you may not know, but I have some updates for that blogmas day ;)

However, I also completed the challenge for the 15th day as well. Well, sort of....

I had these magnets on the entrance door. and they were placed in a chaotic manner.

Now, they're arranged (in no particular) order. But they form a circle more or less, that can be reminiscent of a wreath. a very stylized wreath, if you will.

Can I get a T for "I tried?" ;p

DAY 16

To be completely honest with you, I haven't even seen the challenge for this day. Like I mentioned, the challenges are posted on Facebook.

Even if I did see it, I wouldn't have been able to write anything because I was out and about for most of the day. This involved a lot of walking.

When we got home I was tired, I had to write for my day job, as well as cook some food. I also decided to write a review for a beer on my BeingObscure.com website.

Writing for my blog would have been impossible.

In any case, when I finally discovered what the challenge was, I realized I couldn't write much about it anyway. The challenge was to "be positive the whole day."

This challenge did make me think of this entry from about 2 and a half years ago. I can't believe it's been so long since I wrote it.

I believe we'll have to change our perspective on this year and everything that happened. it's been tough, but we made it. Those who didn't ... let's pray for them and let's not forget them if they were close to us. We can only hope their suffering ended and that they are in a better place, I suppose. Let's not take our lives for granted.

However, to keep in the spirit of the challenge even more, I'll share with you something that manages to make me feel better and more positive: some nice hot coffee.

a cup of matcha latte from maybe may 2018? december 2019? i forgot.

DAY 17

Today's challenge is to update old entries. This is good practice for bloggers. Over-blog suggests a few ways in which we can do this:

 Update your old items regularly
 Create an article on a theme that comes back regularly on your blog
 Submit a Best-of-Your-Read Best-of-Your-Best-Read Articles
 Link your articles
 Repost/share old articles on your social media

I, in fact, recently updated an old entry. It's a recipe and you can see it here.

Most of my articles have links - either to other entries on my blog or to other sites, as you can see in this entry.

Well, this is it for now! see you tomorrow!

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Blogmas Day 10 - Christmas Menu

Publié le 10 Décembre 2020 par Charly C.

Catégories : #Cooking, #blogmas, #bucharest, #customs, #food, #romanian tradition, #traditions

Hello all!

So today I'm supposed to plan the menu for Christmas. Except I don't need to because every year we eat the same thing.

See, here in Romania, there are a set-in-stone celebration dishes. Everyone makes the same food. Rarely there's any variation.

One of the first things that need to be made for Christmas, or any other big celebration that is, is the cozonac.

I personally never made one, so I don't have a recipe for it. As type of food, this is a dessert. By the method used to make one, it is a bread. So basically, it's a sweet bread and traditionally it has a filling made of nuts and cocoa. Rum (the alcohol) or rum essence (flavoring) can also be used in the filling.

Of course, nowadays it is very common for city folks to buy one or a few. In the country side, it is still being made the traditional way.

The cozonac found int he city comes in different shapes and flavors, with some of them better than others.

Another dish that cannot be missing from the Christmas table are the sarmale. This dish comes from Turkey and if you know that dish you'll know this one as well.

We have cabbage leaves wrapped around a filling made of rice mixed with meat. Generally, the meat is a mixture of beef and pork. I talked a bit about the filling in this article.

You just have to take about a spoonful of filling mixture and put it on the cabbage leaf, then to roll or pack the whole thing neatly. We'll most likely receive some Sarmale, if everything goes smoothly this year, considering the virus.

Sarmale are labor intensive and this is why they're kept for special occasions. These special occasions can include weddings and funerals, especially in the countryside.

Another dish you'll see is the Oliver's Salad, though it's usually called Boeuf Salad or A la Russe. There's actually a small difference between Boeuf and A la Russe: the former has meat and the latter does not. Otherwise, they look the same and generally have the same ingredients.

The ingredients are boiled potatoes, carrots, peas, pickles, black olives, and mayonnaise. Everything gets chopped and mixed together. It is usually decorated with olives, boiled eggs, and red pickled peppers. This salad i plan on making. I made it before, and i can't believe i have zero pictures as proof, though i had some pretty ones made.

Creator & Copyright: Dana Valery from retete-culinare-cu-dana-valery.ro/reteta/salata-a-la-russe-cu-legume-si-maioneza

That's what it can look like and the link will take you to a recipe in Romanian. Google Translate can be your friend.

This salad should be made a day or two in advance, so that the flavors mix well. It's definitely a dish that tastes better at least the next day, and it has to be kept in the fridge.

The taste depends greatly on the pickles used as well as on the mayonnaise. It's best to make the mayonnaise at home, from scratch as it tastes better than the one from the store.

Many people would prepare many dishes based on pork, as they butcher a pig a few days before Christmas. The most notable dishes are steak and home-made sausages.

Some people will replace the pork with a roasted chicken or maybe beef.

This is it for now! see you in blogmas day 11!

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Blogmas Days 7 & 8 - Contest and gifts

Publié le 8 Décembre 2020 par Charly C.

Catégories : #blogmas, #traditions, #customs

Hello everybody.

This entry is for both days 7 and 8 of blogmas that i decided to participate this in.

DAY 7

The challenge for Day 7 was to enter a contest. The prize of the contest was to win 1 year of premium membership. The contest was held on Facebook.

We were 4 contestants in total and the result was that i was not the winner. But maybe other contests will be held in the future. who knows.

Since there was no topic to write about, I had no real thoughts about the challenge itself, therefore i didn't post.

DAY 8

Today's challenge or theme is to write or talk about the gifts we prepared this year for our loved ones.

I prepared the gift for the most important person in my life. However, i can't really talk about it. now now. I did prepare the blog entry talking about it and it will appear on the blog on the 26th or 27th.

All i can say about it is that something my person wanted for quite some time. I managed to make it in about 2 days in total. It doesn't really look like the exact item my person wants, but i still hope they'll like it.

However, i can show you a sneak peak of the item.

I also have a pair of trousers made of the same fabric - 'm wearing them as i type this. i use them as pajama pants. The fabric is very thin so it's perfect for summer and not winter, but i don't feel cold right now.

We also play this Subeta game together, and i prepared some gifts there as well #spoiler, ooops - because my person reads my blog.

You can't tell me how to spend my currency! >.< ;p

This year we have spent a bit more than we expected, on certain products.

Someone put next to the trash a bottle of white French wine that i already gave away to someone. You now me, i'm not ashamed to pick stuff from the trash. /leShock/ And mind you, the bottle was unopened. This is the only reason i got it.

I also really needed to give that person something, though they don't/didn't fully deserve it. Here it wouldn't have been consumed anyways - i don't like white wine and my person is allergic to wine.

I want to make at least one more gift for my person, but im not sure they'll use it. I'm pretty sure they'll like it, just not really use it. And if i'm right, don't want to make something that just takes up more space, collects dust and so on.

I guess this is it for today.

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Blogmas Day 5 - Christmas decorations

Publié le 5 Décembre 2020 par Charly C.

Catégories : #blogmas, #customs, #traditions

Hello there!

Apparently there are 20 days to Christmas and now it seems to be the reasonable time for appropriate seasonal decors.

It rather makes sense since it's not too early and not too late either. Plus, you can keep the decors on for longer, if you wish, or if you celebrate on January 7, like many Russians do.

In any case, as i mentioned in previous posts, here and here, we never really decorated for Christmas in the years we lived together.

As you can see, we managed to have a tiny potted tree before that we managed to somehow decorate.

Sadly, this year there is no tree. Instead we have faerie lights. or Christmas lights.

The failure comes from the fact they're too short. I didn't pay attention to what's written on the box. They are also cold light and about 8 different lighting modes.

We hang the lights on the curtain rod because we no longer have a curtain. Anna is allergic to dust and we have to limit fabric items like curtains or other home decor, as much as possible.

There aren't much decors this year because we had to save money for a new computer, which was postponed by a pretty urgent surgery for Anna as well as many medicines.

I have some greeting cards i forgot to put out and i'm not sure i want to display them. but maybe i can still add some small things around the house.

This is it for now. See you tomorrow.

December 18 update!

In the past 2 or 3 days, our living room became a bit more festive!

On the 15th we went out to search for something and we came back with something else: glass, hand-painted bauble for the Christmas tree.

We don't have a Christmas tree, so I hung it on the lamp. The cats won't be able to reach it there and I know it will be safe from other accidents as well.

It is lunch time but it's so dark outside and indoors. i used the flash to snap this picture and the bauble looks black. it is actually beige and all the colors are more creamy.

We also bought another set of faerie lights. These ones have a warm light. i placed them on the door to the living room due to technical reasons (proximity to an outlet).

I think they pair well with the previous lights.

If we add more stuff to the room, I'll update this entry again.

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Blogmas Day 4 - Christmas Songs

Publié le 4 Décembre 2020 par Charly C.

Catégories : #blogmas, #customs, #traditions, #bucharest, #Romania, #romanian tradition

HeY eVeRyBoDy!

Today's challenge is to make a playlist of songs for Christmas.

Unfortunately, I don't like this type of songs.

I don't like them because every year, no matter where you go, especially in stores, you hear the same songs played over and over and over gain.

It becomes tiresome, overdone, and plain boring.

However, Romania has quite the handful of traditions related to Christmas. I just realized I kinda never posted anything specifically related to this holiday.

I spoke briefly about some of the traditions but not much details.

Most Romanians celebrate Christmas on December 25th, with a few that celebrate on January 7th, like the Russians.

The celebrations include preparing a lot of food, singing carols, as well as various dances and theater plays. In the old days, caroling was done by children but also by adults.

This custom is still preserved in many villages today. However, it's important to know that each village would have its own caroling group made of both adults and children.

Customary, only boys and men would go caroling through the village. The girls and the women would stay at home and prepare the meals, wait for the carolers, and do other chores.

Some of the most popular carols and dances are the ones called "Steaua" and "Capra," meaning "Star" and "Goat" respectively. There's singing involved for both, but there's a dance associated with the "Goat." Another caroling dance and singing is the one with the "Bears".

As far as the Goat and the Bears go, there's always someone in the group dressed as a Goat or Bears. Usually, the group has 1 goat, maybe 2 at times. There are usually 3 bears in the Bear group. There has to be at least 1 bear, but I'm not sure about how many bears there can be in the group.

Below, there's a very short clip of the Bear dance, from 4 years ago, at the Christmas market. I don't think there will be any this year due to the virus.

Across this city, various groups go with either the Goat or the Bears. I'm not sure if this year we'll see any Goats or Bears due to the current situation.

I spoke more about the Goat and Bear because i like them the most. The Goat is very colorful. I don't think you can meet 2 identical looking Goats, but I'm not sure. She might look different from region to region.

The Bear dance is loud and one can barely hear the words being sung or spoken. The Bears have 2 red pompoms around the neck or ears, i forgot. They are also supposed to appear closer to the New Year, so usually after Christmas.

Traditionally, all carolers were supposed to receive some sort of reward from the person receiving them. The traditional rewards are apples, nuts, and a few other edible items. Nowadays, money is the most common reward.

The Bears however, are supposed to receive clothes. I forgot if new or old clothes. It's best not to receive the carolers if you can't reward them: you'll be followed by bad luck in the new year.

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